{"id":11145,"date":"2024-04-22T17:03:17","date_gmt":"2024-04-22T17:03:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=11145"},"modified":"2024-04-22T17:03:17","modified_gmt":"2024-04-22T17:03:17","slug":"mom-hears-son-has-been-bullying-classmates-her-controversial-punishment-has-the-internet-split-in-two-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=11145","title":{"rendered":"Mom hears son has been bullying classmates \u2013 her controversial punishment has the internet split in two"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bullying is an issue abhorred all over the world, but it\u2019s a problem that\u2019s unfortunately ingrained in society.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to teach\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/en.newsner.com\/tag\/children\/\">children<\/a>\u00a0from the earliest of ages that bullying is unacceptable in any form, and it\u2019s a lesson most parents and teachers strive to hammer home.<\/p>\n<p>However, it\u2019s virtually impossible to root it out entirely, so what to do when a child is found to be\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/en.newsner.com\/tag\/bullying\/\">bullying<\/a>\u00a0another? Well, one Texan mom had a rather controversial method of punishing her son after hearing how he\u2019d called other kids in his class \u201cidiots\u201d and \u201cstupid\u201d. The woman, known only as Star,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/abc13.com\/society\/mom-makes-son-wear-i-am-a-bully-shirt-to-teach-him-a-lesson\/4270460\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">has sent shockwaves<\/a>\u00a0around the internet with her choice of admonishment.<\/p>\n<p>As per British newspaper\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailystar.co.uk\/news\/world-news\/730953\/Texas-mum-sends-son-school-bully-t-shirt-sparks-outrage-video\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">The Daily Star<\/a>, the mom wanted to stamp out her son\u2019s behavior and, having grown tired of his antics, conjured her own form of rebuke.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/abc13.com\/society\/mom-makes-son-wear-i-am-a-bully-shirt-to-teach-him-a-lesson\/4270460\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">She told ABC13<\/a>\u00a0that she was an \u201cold-school parent\u201d who believes in strong morals.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t coddle my children. I don\u2019t\u00a0sugar-coat\u00a0the world to them,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_20984\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-20984\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-20984 lazyautosizes ls-is-cached lazyloaded\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, 652px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully-768x403.jpg 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"630\" data-src=\"https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully-400x210.jpg 400w, https:\/\/cdn-main.newsner.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/11\/2018\/09\/05222956\/Bully-768x403.jpg 768w\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-eio-rwidth=\"1200\" data-eio-rheight=\"630\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-20984\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">YouTube \/ CBS Philly<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Instead of simply telling him off, or even ordering him to deliver an apology to the affected kids, Star opted to dress her son in a t-shirt that read \u201cI AM A BULLY\u201d. She then took photos of him before school and uploaded it to Facebook so that everyone could see.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, her decision has been met with a mixed response. Many people are backing her choice of strong punishment, though others believe she may have crossed the line.<\/p>\n<p>Assuring people that she didn\u2019t upload to Facebook in a bid to embarrass her son,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/abc13.com\/society\/mom-makes-son-wear-i-am-a-bully-shirt-to-teach-him-a-lesson\/4270460\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Star told ABC13:<\/a>\u00a0\u201cI posted it to reach out to the parents of any of the kids my son may have bullied so that each one of them could get a personal apology.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She later removed the post after receiving negative backlash, but she still stands by her decision.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wanted to know what he learned from it and he said, \u2018I learned that I didn\u2019t like the way that that felt and I don\u2019t want anybody else to feel that way because of me. That\u2019s exactly what I wanted him to take from it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Mom Makes Son Wear 'Bully' T-Shirt\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CKLdVWW1YfE?feature=oembed\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Experts believe Star\u2019s actions could do more harm than good, but the mom herself claims that her son has already been behaving better.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe\u2019ll survive. And he\u2019s already been treating his sisters better. He\u2019s already been treating his cousins better. He learned from it. That\u2019s all that matters,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Star\u2019s actions are certainly controversial, but if her son has improved his behavior then perhaps he\u2019s learnt a lesson all kids need to learn at some point. What do you think? Did Star go too far? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Meanwhile, share this article to show your support for the anti-bullying movement. Together, we can work towards a future where bullying is kept to an absolute minimum.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bullying is an issue abhorred all over the world, but it\u2019s a problem that\u2019s unfortunately&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":48,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11145"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11145\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}