{"id":12550,"date":"2024-06-14T09:16:55","date_gmt":"2024-06-14T09:16:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=12550"},"modified":"2024-06-14T09:16:55","modified_gmt":"2024-06-14T09:16:55","slug":"father-outraged-as-teen-daughter-gets-banned-from-walking-graduation-wearing-her-traditional-hawaiian-lei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=12550","title":{"rendered":"Father outraged as teen daughter gets banned from walking graduation wearing her traditional Hawaiian lei"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"summary_summary__q_VAA\">People have questioned why a student wasn&#8217;t allowed to wear a Hawaiian lei at her graduation<\/h2>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\"><strong>A furious father hit out at his daughter&#8217;s school after she wasn&#8217;t allowed to wear a traditional Hawaiian lei to her graduation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Sophia Noelani Iliana Benzon was set to graduate Eastlake High School in Chula Vista earlier this month and sported a beautiful lei around her neck.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">But shortly before she was supposed to take part in the ceremony, Sophia and her family &#8211; some of which were also wearing leis &#8211; were stopped by\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/school\">school<\/a>\u00a0staff members.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">A heated encounter between Sophia&#8217;s family and a teacher was videoed and uploaded to\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/tiktok\">TikTok<\/a>, where the member of school staff apologized for the situation but insisted that the student couldn&#8217;t wear the lei because it went against the school&#8217;s policy.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg\" sizes=\"100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=640&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 640w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=750&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 750w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=828&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 828w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1080&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 1080w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1200&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 1200w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1920&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 1920w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=2048&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 2048w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt4b2cedd125b6d4d5\/666af4d707ec2ed858037769\/%5Bimage%5D_-_7407668.jpeg 3840w\" alt=\"Sophia was stopped from taking part in the ceremony. (kainoa_2005\/Instagram)\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" data-nimg=\"fill\" \/><\/div>\n<p><cite class=\"image-credit_imageCredit__YMlqS\">Sophia was stopped from taking part in the ceremony. (kainoa_2005\/Instagram)<\/cite><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Sophia&#8217;s father raged: &#8220;You&#8217;re not sorry. I don&#8217;t want to hear sorry, I want my daughter to be out on that field walking with her traditional garb like every one of my other family members in the past who have graduated.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Apparently they needed to get school district&#8217;s permission for Sophia to wear the lei, but the Benzon family insisted that they did.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Sophia&#8217;s brother Kainoa has since uploaded the clip to TikTok and it&#8217;s been viewed almost seven million times.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">He captioned the now-<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/viral\">viral<\/a>\u00a0video: &#8220;My sister was denied from walking at her graduation minutes before her ceremony because school staff would not let her wear traditional\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/hawaii\">Hawaiian<\/a>\u00a0lei\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;After getting further approval from the district board to wear them, faculty members further then restricted access to having her phone and forced Sophia, A MINOR, to verbally say she was not going to participate in the ceremony in order for her to contact her parents after the fact.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"tiktok-embed_tiktok__FJOwE\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\"><iframe title=\"7378262312290880810\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed\/7378262312290880810\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Kainoa&#8217;s lengthy caption went on: &#8220;They held her in another building as the\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/news\/us-news\/thomas-jefferson-graduation-mispronounced-names-871279-20240513\">graduation ceremony<\/a>\u00a0was taking place and there she was discriminated and excluded from her peers as she stood crying in disbelief waiting for her family to arrive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;Eastlake High School took this evening which was supposed to be the end of a chapter to celebrate and turned it into a tragedy for her and her family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;Hawaiian culture should not be excluded or dictated by school policies whatsoever. So much for inclusivity and diversity if you\u2019re going to discriminate tradition from all Pacific Islanders.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">The video has also been shared on Reddit where people have shared their thoughts.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png\" sizes=\"100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=640&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 640w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=750&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 750w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=828&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 828w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1080&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 1080w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1200&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 1200w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1920&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 1920w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=2048&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 2048w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blte1ffca4d42e990d3\/666afe0c188f545fb5d10e78\/lei-grad-blur.png 3840w\" alt=\"Sophia and her family celebrated her graduation at home instead. (kainoa_2005\/Instagram)\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" data-nimg=\"fill\" \/><\/div>\n<p><cite class=\"image-credit_imageCredit__YMlqS\">Sophia and her family celebrated her graduation at home instead. (kainoa_2005\/Instagram)<\/cite><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;I&#8217;m more dumbfounded this happened, in San Diego too,&#8221; someone said. &#8220;It&#8217;s not like she had 10 leis or something like some graduates end up with after walking. I can see those being a bit weird for a stage walk, but this is just ridiculous.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Another added: &#8220;My sister\u2019s high school doesn\u2019t allow leis of any kind. It makes no sense, it doesn\u2019t disrupt anything with the ceremony. I get it some students are overkill with them but just put a limit to it, don\u2019t outright ban them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Elsewhere people online have applauded Sophia&#8217;s father for standing up for his daughter and their Hawaiian culture.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Sophia ultimately chose not to walk in the ceremony and celebrated in the parking lot and her home instead.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People have questioned why a student wasn&#8217;t allowed to wear a Hawaiian lei at her&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12550","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":62,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12550","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12550"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12550\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12550"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12550"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12550"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}