{"id":13021,"date":"2024-07-03T19:39:49","date_gmt":"2024-07-03T19:39:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=13021"},"modified":"2024-07-03T19:39:49","modified_gmt":"2024-07-03T19:39:49","slug":"woman-divides-opinion-after-saying-she-wont-leave-her-daughter-alone-with-a-male-relative","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=13021","title":{"rendered":"Woman divides opinion after saying she won&#8217;t leave her daughter alone with a male relative"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"summary_summary__q_VAA\">A mother on TikTok has defended her actions and explained how she plans to raise her daughter differently than most<\/h2>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\"><strong>A mother has received both a backlash and support after explaining how she plans to raise her daughter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">A mom-of-two has some controversial opinions around raising children and after expressing them on\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/social-media\">social media<\/a>, people are divided on whether or not the mom is too strict.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Aubrey, who posts on her\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/tiktok\">TikTok<\/a>\u00a0page @theorganicmami, raised some eyebrows when she explained that she would not ever be leaving her daughter alone with male relatives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">She also broke down some other rules she intends to implement for her children that some users deemed strict.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">While doing her makeup on camera and speaking to her followers she got into the details of her\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/parenting\">parenting<\/a>\u00a0methods.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;No sleepovers, not even with family members. And she will never be left alone with a male. I don&#8217;t care if you&#8217;re the grandparent, the uncle or the cousin,&#8221; she said in the video.<\/p>\n<div class=\"tiktok-embed_tiktok__FJOwE\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\"><iframe title=\"7267670943890345262\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed\/7267670943890345262\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">She goes on to say that she won&#8217;t treat her daughter differently to how she would treat a son.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;For instance, me letting my son go out late but not my daughter because it&#8217;s too dangerous for a woman &#8211; I&#8217;m just going to treat them both the same,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Aubrey also said her kids will not be able to keep any secrets from her and her husband.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Secrets will not be kept from your parents. And if you&#8217;re one of those people now saying &#8216;I&#8217;ll give you candy when your mum&#8217;s not here, just don&#8217;t tell her&#8217;, that&#8217;s the quickest way to never see us again,&#8221; she says in the video.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg\" sizes=\"100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=640&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 640w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=750&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 750w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=828&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 828w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1080&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1200&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1920&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=2048&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt476867c2da6b7b69\/66853efee7bb878286ed73ca\/GettyImages-1457103190.jpg 3840w\" alt=\"Some social media users condemned the mother for her parenting plans(Getty Stock Image)\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" data-nimg=\"fill\" \/><\/div>\n<p><cite class=\"image-credit_imageCredit__YMlqS\">Some social media users condemned the mother for her parenting plans(Getty Stock Image)<\/cite><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">She also has rules for the adults who will be around her daughter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;She doesn&#8217;t have to kiss you, hug you, or sit on your lap just because you asked her to and because you&#8217;re a relative and haven&#8217;t seen her in a long time,&#8221; she says in the clip.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;She doesn&#8217;t have to respect you if you don&#8217;t also respect her, as a child she still will have opinions and emotions and she is allowed to feel a certain way.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Aubrey also plans to homeschool her daughter and try holistic methods for\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/health\">healthcare<\/a>\u00a0before turning to Western medicine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;We&#8217;re not going to do a public\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/education\">school<\/a>\u00a0system that makes you sit at a desk for eight hours and not learn anything you really care about,&#8221; she explains in the video.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">She continued: &#8220;I am teaching her to stand up for herself, set boundaries and say no.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Aubrey says she&#8217;s also teaching her daughter she can always come to her and that she never has to hide anything.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">People were divided in the comments.<\/p>\n<p>Some thought she was robbing her daughter of childhood memories by not letting her go to sleepovers.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png\" sizes=\"100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=640&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 640w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=750&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 750w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=828&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 828w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1080&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 1080w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1200&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 1200w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1920&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 1920w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=2048&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 2048w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt78bcfdbe4b3a5b35\/66853f3e28f9dad7238cfa0b\/Screenshot_2024-07-03_at_13.08.20.png 3840w\" alt=\"Some people praised the mother and wished their parents had similar rules growing up.(Getty Stock Image)\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" data-nimg=\"fill\" \/><\/div>\n<p><cite class=\"image-credit_imageCredit__YMlqS\">Some people praised the mother and wished their parents had similar rules growing up.(Getty Stock Image)<\/cite><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;She won\u2019t ever be allowed to have sleepovers with her friends? No judgement. Just those were some of my best childhood memories,&#8221; one person commented.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Another added: &#8220;If you know the parents and the kid, I don\u2019t see the harm in sleepovers, they\u2019re honestly some of my best memories.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">While others praised the young mother for putting her daughter first.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;So many things happened to me as a child AT A SLEEPOVER!! Good for you mama,&#8221; one person commented.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Another commented: &#8220;I used to get so mad at my mum for not letting me go to sleepovers. But now that I\u2019m a mum, I understand.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">A third said: &#8220;I used to be forced to let male family and friends give me kisses, hugs, and sit on their laps as a kid. It was \u201ccute\u201d and it traumatised me.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A mother on TikTok has defended her actions and explained how she plans to raise&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13021","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":148,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13021","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13021"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13021\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13021"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13021"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13021"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}