{"id":13071,"date":"2024-07-05T20:01:03","date_gmt":"2024-07-05T20:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=13071"},"modified":"2024-07-05T20:01:03","modified_gmt":"2024-07-05T20:01:03","slug":"woman-slammed-for-charging-daughters-friends-parents-15-for-a-playdate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=13071","title":{"rendered":"Woman slammed for charging daughter&#8217;s friend&#8217;s parents $15 for a playdate"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"summary_summary__q_VAA\">A mom has sparked heated debate online after calling for the &#8216;normalization&#8217; of charging other parents for playdates<\/h2>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\"><strong>A mom has sparked heated debate online for calling for the &#8216;normalization&#8217; of charging other kids&#8217; parents for playdates.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Oh to be a child again and the only thing you have to think about is getting up, watching some\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/film-and-tv\">TV<\/a>, going to\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/education\">school<\/a>, learning what two plus two is and which one of your best friends&#8217; houses you&#8217;re going to on a Friday night.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Alas, playdates are seemingly getting a whole lot more complicated, with one mom explaining she now charges her daughter&#8217;s friends&#8217;\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/parenting\">parents<\/a>\u00a0when they come for a visit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">But what for?<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png\" sizes=\"100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=640&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 640w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=750&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 750w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=828&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 828w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1080&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 1080w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1200&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 1200w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1920&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 1920w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=2048&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 2048w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt9aa42bb6406ddea2\/66869a78594f672175265680\/charge-playdate.png 3840w\" alt=\"No money? No entry (Getty Stock Images\/ RichLegg) \" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" data-nimg=\"fill\" \/><\/div>\n<p><cite class=\"image-credit_imageCredit__YMlqS\">No money? No entry (Getty Stock Images\/ RichLegg)<\/cite><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Shay took to<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/tiktok\">\u00a0TikTok<\/a> last month to call on her fellow parents to &#8216;normalize sending the other family money for playdates&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">In the video, she\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@shay.nanigans87\/video\/7379755241455275310\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">says<\/a>: &#8220;So recently, my daughter had a friend over and I asked her mom for money and this is how it went.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Shay then reveals a screenshot of the text conversation, showing her text to the mom thanking her for letting her child come and play but requesting that she &#8216;help out&#8217; with her &#8216;share of the expenses&#8217; by sending over\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/money\">$15\u00a0<\/a>over Venmo.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">The text concludes: &#8220;Let&#8217;s do it again soon!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">And it&#8217;s fair to say the other mom was a bit confused.<\/p>\n<div class=\"article-image_articleImage__eyzAn\">\n<div class=\"article-image_imageWrapper__ANtPE\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg\" sizes=\"100vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=640&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 640w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=750&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 750w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=828&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 828w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1080&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1200&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=1920&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=2048&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/images.ladbible.com\/resize?type=webp&amp;quality=70&amp;width=3840&amp;fit=contain&amp;gravity=auto&amp;url=https:\/\/images.ladbiblegroup.com\/v3\/assets\/blt949ea8e16e463049\/blt217ba5685fb1cc35\/6686a5b28097f3a5125d092c\/GettyImages-670783845.jpg 3840w\" alt=\"She tallied up the 'expenses' that her daughter's friend accrued (Getty stock image)\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\" data-nimg=\"fill\" \/><\/div>\n<p><cite class=\"image-credit_imageCredit__YMlqS\">She tallied up the &#8216;expenses&#8217; that her daughter&#8217;s friend accrued (Getty stock image)<\/cite><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">After questioning why there were &#8216;expenses,&#8217; Shay continued: &#8220;She used supplies and\u00a0<a class=\"link_link__LDfG6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unilad.com\/food-and-drink\">food<\/a>\u00a0while she was here and this way we can do this more often without a monetary obligation on just one party.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Shay went on to list the supplies, which included items such as $1 apple sauce, $1 for chalk and $1 for the child having &#8216;sat on couch wear and tear&#8217;, alongside $5 for breaking a doll.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Oh and &#8216;three trips to the bathroom&#8217; totalling $3.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">The fellow parent didn&#8217;t reply but simply sent over the funds.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">Shay resolved: &#8220;Controversial but I think it&#8217;s a really good idea. What do you think?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">And it&#8217;s not taken long for people to flood the video in debate.<\/p>\n<div class=\"tiktok-embed_tiktok__FJOwE\" data-chromatic=\"ignore\"><iframe title=\"7379755241455275310\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed\/7379755241455275310\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">One TikToker wrote: &#8220;&#8216;Mommy whyy does nobody want to come over and play with me?'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;I&#8217;d send you the $15 then never speak to you again,&#8221; another added.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;You counted her bathroom visits?!?!&#8221; a third wrote.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">A fourth commented: &#8220;If I couldn&#8217;t afford to host a playdate, then I simply wouldn&#8217;t invite. Instead meet at a park and bring your own snacks.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">&#8220;That&#8217;s actually a good idea. Thank you,&#8221; Shay replied.<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">And a final resolved: &#8220;It&#8217;s rage bait right pls.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"text_text__nEn66\">So, what do you think?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A mom has sparked heated debate online after calling for the &#8216;normalization&#8217; of charging other&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13071","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":127,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13071","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13071"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13071\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13071"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13071"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13071"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}