{"id":15223,"date":"2025-01-01T20:44:55","date_gmt":"2025-01-01T20:44:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=15223"},"modified":"2025-01-01T20:45:56","modified_gmt":"2025-01-01T20:45:56","slug":"i-excluded-my-dils-kids-from-my-familys-gathering","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=15223","title":{"rendered":"I Excluded My DIL\u2019s Kids From My Family\u2019s Gathering"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Family gatherings and festivities are supposed to bring loved ones together, but Greta\u2019s 40th wedding anniversary had the opposite effect.<\/p>\n<p>Greta urged her daughter-in-law to bring only one child in order to make space in her crowded home.<\/p>\n<p>What she thought was a reasonable request suddenly caused tension, which grew into a major schism. Greta is now seeking advice on how to resolve the matter.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy husband and I are celebrating our 40th anniversary with 12 of our closest family members. Our home is small, so I asked my son\u2019s wife to only bring my 9-year-old grandson and leave her other three kids (13, 11, and 10) at home.<\/p>\n<p>. My son quickly agreed, and the three of them came to the celebration. However, the whole night, she was oddly quiet.<\/p>\n<p>I almost fainted when I opened it and saw all my belongings from my son\u2019s house, where I occasionally stay.<\/p>\n<p>There was a note saying, \u201cYou\u2019re not welcome to stay at my house anymore.\u201d Sh0cked, I chose not to react to avoid creating further conflict.<\/p>\n<p>However, the next day, my grandson called me in tears. He told me that his parents had a huge fight, and his dad had left.<\/p>\n<p>I rushed to their house and froze when I found the place in complete disarray.<\/p>\n<p>My daughter-in-law turned to me and said she wanted to leave my son because he didn\u2019t stand up for her kids.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Family gatherings and festivities are supposed to bring loved ones together, but Greta\u2019s 40th wedding&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15224,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":654,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15223","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15223"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15223\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/15224"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/used82.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}