{"id":9499,"date":"2024-02-22T19:09:31","date_gmt":"2024-02-22T19:09:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=9499"},"modified":"2024-02-22T19:09:31","modified_gmt":"2024-02-22T19:09:31","slug":"15-astonishing-secrets-people-found-out-too-late","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/used82.com\/?p=9499","title":{"rendered":"15 Astonishing Secrets People Found Out Too Late"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The innocence of little children can\u2019t be measured. When we are young we see the world through different eyes, but as we grow older our perspectives change drastically and some of our past memories get an entirely different meaning. We suddenly realize that some of the things we experienced as children, which seemed normal back then, were in fact frightening.<\/p>\n<p>15\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/divorced-people-on-reddit-share-the-final-straw-in-calling-their-marriage-quits\/\">Reddit users\u00a0<\/a>shared the experience of some shocking and rather disturbing events from their past.<\/p>\n<p>Read the below.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>My\u00a0mother used never to\u00a0want to\u00a0get out of\u00a0bed when\u00a0I was\u00a05, and she just kept saying she was sick. Finally,\u00a0my\u00a0stepdad took her to\u00a0a\u00a0hospital,\u00a0where she stayed for nearly a\u00a0month. I\u00a0thought it\u00a0was so\u00a0cool that her hospital let her do\u00a0arts and crafts all the time; plus, she got better and started doing arts and crafts with\u00a0me, too when she got home.I\u00a0remember telling her\u00a0I wished to\u00a0go\u00a0to\u00a0the hospital and draw all day.\u00a0She sat me\u00a0down and told me\u00a0that she hoped\u00a0I would never get sick like she did, but if\u00a0I\u00a0do, there\u2019s nothing wrong with needing help to\u00a0get better,\u00a0even if\u00a0you have to\u00a0go\u00a0somewhere for a\u00a0little while to\u00a0do\u00a0it.It\u00a0wasn\u2019t until\u00a0I was probably 13\u00a0that it\u00a0clicked that the hospital she had gone to\u00a0was a\u00a0mental health hospital when\u00a0I realized\u00a0I didn\u2019t want to\u00a0get out of\u00a0bed myself. But because of\u00a0her, I\u2019ve never felt shame about needing therapy when things are getting bad or\u00a0even just to\u00a0maintain a\u00a0healthy mindset.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0kenda1l\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>I\u00a0thought\u00a0everyone goes to\u00a0jail or\u00a0prison at\u00a0least once in\u00a0their life. It\u00a0was quite a\u00a0surprise to\u00a0me\u00a0when\u00a0I moved out to\u00a0the suburbs and met people who knew nothing about jail or\u00a0prison.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Doggo6893\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Had a\u00a0recurring\u00a0dream\/nightmare as\u00a0a\u00a0kid about a\u00a0shadowy figure that would come through the walls of\u00a0my\u00a0parents\u2019 room, but as\u00a0long as\u00a0I hid under the sheet\u00a0I used to\u00a0make a\u00a0fort with, I\u2019d be\u00a0safe. I\u00a0figured it\u00a0was just a\u00a0messed up\u00a0dream for years until\u00a0I found out from my\u00a0dad when\u00a0I got older that\u00a0some dude had broken into our house when\u00a0I was playing and tried to\u00a0snatch\u00a0me.\u00a0My\u00a0(8\u00a0months pregnant with my\u00a0sister at\u00a0the time) mum chased him out and down the road with a\u00a0metal pipe from the vacuum cleaner.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0FakeSchwarzenbach\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a class=\"td-modal-image\" href=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-1912868.webp\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-64602\" src=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-1912868.webp\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-1912868.webp 600w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-1912868-500x333.webp 500w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-1912868-150x100.webp 150w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-1912868-300x200.webp 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Pexels<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>Three decades ago, when\u00a0I was 9\u00a0years old, my\u00a0father said he\u2019d won free\u00a0pizza\u00a0coupons, and he\u00a0had\u00a0a\u00a0massive stack of\u00a0these little business cards,\u00a0each for a\u00a0free large pizza. My\u00a0dad said we\u00a0had to\u00a0be\u00a0careful using them, though, so\u00a0we\u00a0would only use them occasionally.<br \/>\nI\u00a0remember my\u00a0dad sometimes making me\u00a0order the pizza and answering the door to\u00a0get the free pizza, even though\u00a0I was only 9.Looking back, I\u00a0realize my\u00a0dad worked for a\u00a0commercial printing company and was not an\u00a0upstanding citizen.\u00a0I\u2019m pretty sure he\u00a0didn\u2019t win those cards.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0shyblonde83\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>My\u00a0cousin and\u00a0I were riding with my\u00a0grandmother somewhere when we\u00a0were still car seat age (I\u00a0think), and she got pulled over. She had a\u00a0warrant out for writing a\u00a0bad check or\u00a0something, so\u00a0the cop cuffed her and put her in\u00a0the back of\u00a0the police car. My\u00a0aunt had to\u00a0come to\u00a0pick\u00a0us up. We\u00a0thought it\u00a0was hilarious then, but\u00a0I can\u2019t believe\u00a0I witnessed my\u00a0grandma getting arrested.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Tayayayaylor\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Finding out that breaking a\u00a0cup or\u00a0spilling a\u00a0drink wasn\u2019t a\u00a0big deal was quite an\u00a0eye-opener. Watching my\u00a0girlfriend look at\u00a0me\u00a0like I\u2019m crazy while\u00a0I apologize for 20\u00a0minutes about dropping a\u00a0glass of\u00a0water\u00a0made me\u00a0reevaluate a\u00a0lot of\u00a0my\u00a0childhood.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0HELLFIRECHRIS\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a class=\"td-modal-image\" href=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-64603\" src=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 728px) 100vw, 728px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9.jpg 728w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9-500x496.jpg 500w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9-150x149.jpg 150w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9-300x298.jpg 300w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9-696x690.jpg 696w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/290ddc5bab92469668de6e36e9-423x420.jpg 423w\" alt=\"\" width=\"728\" height=\"722\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Pexels<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>My\u00a0dad got laid off from a\u00a0job, and we\u00a0started to\u00a0really struggle for a\u00a0year or\u00a0so. He\u00a0woke up\u00a0early every morning to\u00a0make breakfast for\u00a0us all before school and cleaned the house while doing side jobs so\u00a0we\u00a0would never know we\u00a0were struggling. He\u00a0couldn\u2019t get a\u00a0basic job because he\u00a0was \u201coverqualified.\u201d\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0tuckerb_2000\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>When I\u00a0was around 7\u00a0years old, I\u00a0would see my\u00a0father kiss women\u00a0I saw for the very first time. Since I\u00a0was used to\u00a0thinking that kissing passionately was just like a\u00a0normal kiss on\u00a0the cheek as\u00a0a\u00a0greeting, I\u00a0didn\u2019t care.\u00a0When my\u00a0father spotted me\u00a0while he\u00a0was kissing some woman, he\u00a0went up\u00a0to\u00a0me\u00a0and gave me\u00a0$20 for just standing there.\u00a0I\u00a0realized what he\u00a0was doing a\u00a0few years later and was immensely disappointed.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Lasok-Yt\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>My\u00a0grandma explained to\u00a0me\u00a0that she had a\u00a0miscarriage a\u00a0little while after her last child. At\u00a0around 9,\u00a0I\u00a0said it\u00a0was for the best because my\u00a0mom, aunt, and uncle were troublemakers, so\u00a0it\u00a0was better for her. She got furious at\u00a0me, and\u00a0I was so\u00a0confused then. I\u00a0didn\u2019t realize how messed up\u00a0it\u00a0actually was.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0wheresmyson**\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a class=\"td-modal-image\" href=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-897817.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-64604\" src=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-897817.jpeg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-897817.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-897817-500x333.jpeg 500w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-897817-150x100.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-photo-897817-300x200.jpeg 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Pexels<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>When I\u00a0was 6\u00a0or 7, I\u00a0remember my\u00a0mom went out for the night, and my\u00a0dad was sad, so\u00a0I wrote a\u00a0little note to\u00a0her, expressing my\u00a0concern that it\u00a0was making daddy unhappy.\u00a0I\u00a0left the note on\u00a0their bed. My\u00a0mom brought the note to\u00a0me\u00a0and expressed her displeasure.Over 20\u00a0years later, my\u00a0dad told me\u00a0about how\u00a0my\u00a0mom was openly cheating on\u00a0him with her now-husband. My\u00a0dad would literally drive her to\u00a0his place so\u00a0she could continue her relationship with him. Turns out that my\u00a0younger half-brother was conceived while she was still married and living with my\u00a0dad. It\u00a0was all a\u00a0significant revelation when\u00a0I found out.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Eat_A_J***_Pal\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>When I\u00a0was about 5\u00a0or 6\u00a0and home alone with my\u00a0dad, two men came to\u00a0the door,\u00a0accused him of\u00a0stealing something from their house down the street, and began trying to\u00a0wrestle him at\u00a0the front door. I\u00a0was sitting about 5\u00a0feet away on\u00a0the floor, and I\u2019m pretty sure they stopped because they saw\u00a0me.<br \/>\nI\u00a0never fully understood what the outcome could have been as\u00a0a\u00a0kid.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0MjrLeeSt***d\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>We\u00a0were at\u00a0some kind of\u00a0resort, I\u00a0had been scared by\u00a0some kind of\u00a0jumping rock thing on\u00a0the beach the day before, so\u00a0instead of\u00a0heading down to\u00a0the sand, my\u00a0mum and\u00a0I stayed near the lobby in\u00a0some kind of\u00a0kids\u2019 playroom for the day, suddenly alarms start going off and we\u00a0go\u00a0outside, I\u00a0felt my\u00a0mum\u2019s arm tug me\u00a0as\u00a0we\u00a0began to\u00a0run through the lobby. I\u00a0dropped one of\u00a0my\u00a0drawings and bent down to\u00a0pick it\u00a0up, as\u00a0I\u00a0did, I\u00a0saw ocean water rushing up\u00a0toward my\u00a0heels,\u00a0I\u00a0survived the 2004 Boxing Day Tsunami,\u00a0and what\u00a0I was most concerned about was a\u00a0picture\u00a0I drew with crayons.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Dyljim\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a class=\"td-modal-image\" href=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-64605\" src=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 728px) 100vw, 728px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85.jpg 728w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85-395x500.jpg 395w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85-150x190.jpg 150w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85-300x380.jpg 300w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85-696x881.jpg 696w, https:\/\/boreddaddy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/34c71f5c78be0eab55f28a3e85-332x420.jpg 332w\" alt=\"\" width=\"728\" height=\"921\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Pexels<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<ul>\n<li>In\u00a05th grade, my\u00a0English teacher gave the class a\u00a0free-writing exercise.\u00a0She shared her feelings of\u00a0being burnt out from working 18-hour days\u00a0and not knowing when it\u00a0would end.<br \/>\nIt\u00a0wasn\u2019t until about 5\u00a0years later, when she quit in\u00a0the middle of\u00a0the school year that\u00a0I realized she had been teetering on\u00a0the edge of\u00a0a\u00a0nervous breakdown for years.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Blenderhead36\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>On\u00a0a\u00a0day out with my\u00a0dad when\u00a0I was little, I\u00a0played in\u00a0the park with a\u00a0girl the same age as\u00a0me. I\u00a0didn\u2019t know her, but she was on\u00a0her own, I\u00a0and my\u00a0dad left after an\u00a0hour or\u00a0so, leaving the girl on\u00a0her own again. My\u00a0dad asked where her parents were, etc. Later on\u00a0that night, there was a\u00a0big story on\u00a0the news about\u00a0<strong>a<\/strong>\u00a0girl who had been abducted,\u00a0and all my\u00a0family kept asking me\u00a0questions about this little girl. It\u00a0went right over my\u00a0head when\u00a0I was about 5\u00a0years old.\u00a040\u00a0years later, I\u00a0still think about her.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0Eve-76\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Before my\u00a0brother was born, my\u00a0mom had an\u00a0affair with a\u00a0gentleman from Spain. My\u00a0mom sent him faxes from the post office once a\u00a0month to\u00a0inform him about our well-being, what we\u00a0were doing, and what she needed money for\u00a0\u2014 like trips to\u00a0school, etc. She guilted him into\u00a0sending a\u00a0lot of\u00a0money every month because he\u00a0thought my\u00a0brother was his son.After our stepdad died (we\u00a0were 11\u00a0&amp; 10\u00a0years old), I\u00a0remember her sending our school photos to\u00a0the Spanish gentleman and also asking if\u00a0there were any trips he\u00a0could pay for. This went on\u00a0until we\u00a0were basically adults at\u00a017\/18 years old.It\u00a0was only a\u00a0couple of\u00a0years back in\u00a0therapy that\u00a0I realized she cheated on\u00a0my\u00a0biological father, pretended to\u00a0have a\u00a0baby with the Spanish gentleman (which was not true), and\u00a0tricked him into paying alimony for years for a\u00a0kid that wasn\u2019t his. Also, my\u00a0stepdad must\u2019ve known about this, too.\u00a0\u00a9\u00a0michischaaf\u00a0\/ Reddit<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The innocence of little children can\u2019t be measured. 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