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After an attractive young woman quit her job as a flight attendant and became a \u201cbig earner\u201d elsewhere, she was shocked when men kept dumping her. It seemed that her new career was too much for some guys to handle. Were they wrong to react the way they did? You decide.<\/h3>\n
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Amanda Sommer worked as a member of the cabin crew for RyanAir before deciding to quit her job as a flight attendant. (Photo Credit: Amanda Sommer via\u00a0The Sun<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Amanda Sommer, a 27-year-old Hartlepool, England woman, worked for RyanAir before deciding to ditch her job as a flight attendant to return home to her boyfriend. When the money she had saved began to run out, Amanda settled on a new endeavor and quickly began raking in the dough.\u00a0Unfortunately for Amanda, her new career choice eventually left her single and struggling to find a new boyfriend.<\/p>\n

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\u201cIt all started when I left my last job and came back home to be with my boyfriend. I had some money saved up to last until I found another job, but it didn\u2019t last long,\u201d Amanda recalled. \u201cI heard about OnlyFans and I liked the idea of it because you can work on there discreetly on your phone and my boyfriend wouldn\u2019t find out,\u201d she told\u00a0The Sun<\/a>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Selling her sexy snaps became quite a lucrative affair, and soon, the OnlyFans model was raking in \u00a315k a month, which is nearly $18,000 USD. Eventually, her secret got out, and she quickly learned that not everyone was a fan nor did they approve.<\/p>\n

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Amanda Sommer (Photo Credit: Amanda Sommer via\u00a0The Sun<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

When Amanda\u2019s boyfriend caught on, things took a downward turn for the model. Unhappy about his girlfriend\u2019s new career, he told Amanda it was the equivalent of \u201ccheating.\u201d Even so, Amanda didn\u2019t want to give up her OnlyFans gig.<\/p>\n

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\u201cI didn\u2019t want to stop doing it because I was doing so well and didn\u2019t have to find a day job, but because I always have to be on my phone to make good money on there he got suspicious and caught me on the website on my phone. He said to me it\u2019s basically cheating which I don\u2019t believe it is,\u201d Amanda recalled. \u201cIt\u2019s just work to me and I don\u2019t even know what any of the fans look like so I don\u2019t see it as cheating at all.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Unfortunately for her, Amanda\u2019s boyfriend strongly disagreed with her point of view and gave her a choice. It was him or OnlyFans. She chose her new job.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe gave me an ultimatum and said to me either you stop doing OnlyFans or I\u2019m leaving,\u201d Amanda explained. \u201cI said the fact that I have an income comes first so I have to choose OnlyFans.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Amanda Sommer (Photo Credit: Amanda Sommer via\u00a0The Sun<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

After her relationship with her boyfriend ended, Amanda learned that many other guys felt the same as her previous beau when it came to her career, leading them to also dump her when they found out how she made her money. In fact, while speaking with the\u00a0British newspaper<\/a>, Amanda revealed that the last three men she dated all ditched her after finding out she was on OnlyFans.<\/p>\n

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\u201cIt keeps happening \u2014 guys I get with just keep finding out and also get upset that I lied to them about what I do, but if I was upfront with them they would want nothing to do with me,\u201d the OnlyFans model explained.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Although Amanda said she can\u2019t understand why she keeps getting dumped when guys find out that she sells photos online, she also explained that the job is \u201ccontroversial\u201d and men get \u201cjealous,\u201d which is why she thinks she can\u2019t keep a boyfriend. However, she feels men should be more open-minded about it.<\/p>\n

\u201c[I]t\u2019s controversial, and if I tell them upfront, they sometimes get jealous, I think, because I earn more money than them and they don\u2019t like [it]. I think that is a big reason as well, rather than them getting jealous of me talking to other guys,\u201d Amanda alleged.\u00a0\u201cI\u2019m very frustrated because I just can\u2019t seem to hold down a boyfriend at all because of this. I just think guys should be more open-minded. It\u2019s not fair,\u201d she added. \u201cI feel fed up at the moment and I have been single for a long time and no one seems to like it and give it a chance,\u201d Amanda complained.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Amanda Sommer (Photo Credit: Amanda Sommer via\u00a0The Sun<\/a>)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Ideally, Amanda is looking for someone who she can settle down with but still enjoy a night out, and her dream guy would be a billionaire like Elon Musk or Bill Gates. Ironically, she also said that she hopes to meet someone \u201cthe old-fashioned way\u201d and that finding love on OnlyFans would be a \u201cno\u201d for her. However, meeting someone is difficult when \u201cthis job\u201d leaves her \u201cclosed off to society,\u201d the\u00a0model<\/a>\u00a0said.<\/p>\n

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\u201cOh no definitely not, I don\u2019t see it like that. I only see it as a way to make money,\u201d Amanda explained when asked if she would consider dating someone from OnlyFans. \u201cI want to meet someone the old-fashioned way and meet them in real life,\u201d she furthered.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis job has made me be very closed off to society because if you do this job then you work from home every day and you don\u2019t meet colleagues,\u201d Amanda added. \u201cSo, since I have done this I have suffered from loneliness and things. I have worked hard for one year but I haven\u2019t had a chance to actually enjoy the money a bit, apart from my dog that I bought so I really would like someone who is adventurous and where I won\u2019t be stuck inside. Someone who likes to go on holidays and stuff.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Perhaps this should serve as a cautionary tale about the current mindset surrounding\u00a0sex<\/a>. When the sanctity of\u00a0sexual intimacy<\/a>\u00a0is devalued, so goes the sanctity of\u00a0marriage<\/a>,\u00a0commitment<\/a>,\u00a0innocence<\/a>, and the whole lot. Nothing is sacred anymore. And, it seems the guys, with whom Amanda Sommer has tried to involve herself, know this to some degree. That\u2019s why, despite her success on the website, Amanda is struggling to find a man who wants her as a wife. Very few fellas will want what they feel everyone else can have or has already had. Right or wrong, that\u2019s reality.<\/p>\n

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