“Mommunes, a creative play on the term ‘communes,’ represent a growing trend in alternative living arrangements as the traditional nuclear family structure undergoes evolution, according to the BBC.
Presently, there are approximately 15 million single mothers in the US facing challenges, either due to financial constraints preventing them from buying a house or the struggle to find enough time to make ends meet while raising their families. Thankfully, a significant number of these resilient mothers have embraced a new perspective on life.
Across the United States and around the globe, several single moms have sought support by turning to their closest friends and fellow single mothers. These women are willing to share the responsibilities of raising a family, forming cohesive and supportive units. Samantha Best, a 24-year-old social media influencer from New Plymouth, New Zealand, experienced this firsthand when she split up with her partner last year. She soon realized that being a single mom and providing for her 4-year-old son was more challenging than she initially anticipated.
In response to the difficulties she faced, Samantha decided to move in with her best friend, Lauren, who was also a single mom raising her 5-year-old daughter. The decision was made without hesitation, and they quickly arranged their living situation, allowing Samantha and her son Kaelin to move in with Lauren and her daughter Haidyn. Together, they began raising their children as a supportive, interconnected family.
Samantha shared her experience with the New York Post, emphasizing the inseparable bond she shares with Lauren. Since moving in together, the two single moms have divided their finances and function as a family unit, providing support and companionship for each other. Moreover, they ensure that their kids spend time with their respective fathers, as co-parenting is the arrangement they both prefer, aiming to foster healthy relationships with both parents.
The benefits of this unique family arrangement have become evident to both mothers. With at least one adult always present at home, they find themselves with more free time, while their children benefit from the companionship of having siblings around. Samantha explained how the presence of Haidyn has helped Kaelin come out of his shell as he looks up to her.
Despite the positive aspects of their situation, the two women often face questions about whether they are romantically involved with each other. They are quick to clarify that they are simply best friends, focusing on self-improvement before re-entering the dating scene.
Lauren even posted a heartwarming video about their family on TikTok. If you find their story inspiring, don’t hesitate to share it with your friends and family.”
